i don't understand

You go one day, two days, three days, four days seeing a person.

You talk.

You spend time doing silly things.

You laugh.

You enjoy this time.

You feel like life is good.

Then you're gone.

That day or days of seeing that person

is gone.

Like strangers, you now walk.

You don't talk.

You don't spend time doing silly things.

You don't laugh together.

You don't have time together to enjoy.

You're life is a different type of good.

How can intimacy come and go -- so easily?

I don't get it.